Marketing works sometime and this is why

 I found a few compelling but not in the way the social media marketers would hope. I am so num to adds that I find practically all of them annoying. Even when they may hit a pain point I'm having and they could possibly solve my problem I don't trust it. I have this bias that if they can afford the add-spend to reach me they are cutting the quality of their product, And don't get me started on the subscription base products! It's a tough world for businesses and marketing agents. I am just making enough money to cover my bills I'm not in the market to buy anything endless it's a one time payment to help save money or make more. Even then it's probably a scam.

Am I Organized?

 Have you ever walked into a room and felt an instant sense of peace? That's the magic of a space where everything has a place, and every place has a purpose. In the dance of interior design, this principle is not just about tidiness; it's about creating a harmonious environment that resonates with our lives.

Let's start with the basics: if something isn't contained, is it really organized? Think about it. Those little trinkets scattered on your coffee table, the stack of books teetering on the edge of the shelf – they might be 'placed,' but are they truly organized? Containment, my friends, is the secret ingredient. It’s not just about boxing things up; it’s about assigning homes to our belongings in a way that they contribute to the overall aesthetic and function of our space.

But here's a fun twist – what if something is neatly organized yet feels out of place? Imagine finding a sleek, modern lamp in a rustic, vintage kitchen. It might be perfectly functional where it is, but it doesn't quite belong, right? That's because when an item’s purpose doesn't align with its place, it disrupts the visual and functional harmony of the space. It’s like a puzzle piece that doesn’t quite fit.

Now, let’s ponder over this: what's the real difference between a room that's organized and one that's been designed? To me, it’s like comparing a neatly written list to a beautifully composed poem. Organization is the list – clear, functional, essential. But design? That's the poetry. It weaves emotion, style, and personality into the space. It’s what turns a house into a home.

Here’s a little nugget of wisdom to chew on: every item in our space is one of four things – a tool, a memory keepsake, a container to organize, a material waiting to be transformed, or clothing. Each has its role. Tools keep our lives running smoothly, from the humble hammer to our trusty laptops. Keepsakes connect us to our past, evoking memories and emotions. Containers, well, they’re the unsung heroes of organization, keeping our chaos neatly tucked away. Materials awaiting transformation? They’re the promise of creation, the raw ingredients of our next big project. And clothing, it’s not just fabric; it’s our chosen skin, our personal expression to the world.

In essence, every item in our space tells a story – of utility, of memory, of potential. When we align these stories with the purpose of our spaces, we create environments that are not just functional or beautiful, but deeply personal.

So, as you look around your space today, ask yourself: Does everything in here have its rightful place? Does it serve a purpose, or does it disrupt the harmony? Remember, the art of organizing is not just about placing things. It’s about creating a space that's a reflection of you – your needs, your style, your story.

And that, dear friends, is the true essence of turning a space into your own little slice of heaven.

being yourself

Today I met a guy at church and I befriended him. I asked him about himself, I wanted to know more about him. He is the quiet type but when I showed interest in him he opened up to me. Now he feels like he can be more of himself around me.

I have been asking this question again and again, How can I be more of myself around other people? I think I got part of that answer today, it's not something you can do but what others can do for you. When you show interest in other people they feel excepted and when one feels excepted they feel they can be themselves.

Taking that down to a deeper level, What if all you have to do to relax and be yourself around others is to except who you are as you are. Others may still not except you for who you are but that doesn't matter very much any more. From what I have seen, most people will except you for who you are when you have excepted you as you.

weird things not to do

. Standing a little off from the group

. Talking very little

. creepy, expressing your feelings before you know exactly how the other person feels about you.

. Saying things with the wrong tone of voice that people can take as unkind or to random.

Girls do not like followers

I was having a conversation with a good friends of mine. She told me of a guy that had started to follow her around, sit by her at parties, standing by her while she was having conversations with groups of friends. He's not quite a stocker but he's getting close.

You don't want to over work your chances, sit by her only once and if she likes you shill sit by you. When you like a girl don't sit or stand by her endless your going to talk to her. For all you shy people out there, don't be discouraged about this. You'll probably feel like if you followed this advice it will stop you from making your moves to when the girl of your dreams. Yet not following this advice you'll scare her away before you can do anything. Please ask me questions about this so I can better help you with your situations.

some days are harder then others

I totally understand that what I say may be completely to almost useless everybody out there. I'm bad at socializing; unless your worse then I am what I say here has little help for you. yet i have an advantage, because I don't normally get out of my comfort zone and socialize I'm more aware of what is working and whats not. Socializing is a system of things you do and say and like most systems when your good at it it's hard to help someone who isn't. Like driving a car, playing the guitar or doing math. it's just something you can do well from the start or you have worked hard cor to get to were you are today.

I'm so sick of being as shy as I am. Some days I'm more shy then others. Like today, I went to church and barely had the guts to talk to anybody. Today was just not my day. I was watching this boy and girl in quire. They were being very social to a point that they were being very rambunctious, witch frustrated the choir director. I thought to myself "I've been like that before. what made today different compared to the times I've been that social?"

It is the people we are around that help or not help us relax and be who we want to be. Each person we are around brings something different out of us. Side note, I want a girl that brings my social side out of me.

being social takes confidants. Confidants is a major part in the dating world. There are different levels of confidants in different areas of your life. anything and everything you do you have to have some level of confidants or you wont or can not do it. Like I go dances very little because I have little confidants in my dancing. Your level of confidants is also the gage of the type of girls you go for and they you. you can look around the room and tell right away how much confidants each person has. It also makes up most clicks.

What girls look for in guys

Top ten things girls want in guys

Confedance

Musical quwalitty

goo Looks

level of weirdness

good edict

good hygiene

good Language

is social

has a Car

has a Job or going to college

the list goes on and on but these are main ones for most girls

Dating is all about making friends. whether they are more guy friends or girl friends it doesn't matter to much because you make friends with their friends and that gives you a bigger pool of fish to chose from.